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* The Zodiac Man - Because not all ex-boyfriends or ex-husbands are the same, the plan to win them back shouldn't be the same either! That's why there's 'Breakup Scopes' The Zodiac Man'!

* How to Win Back Their Attraction! ATTRACTION IS EVERYTHING! Here's what to do when you think they are no longer attracted to you

* How to Stop A Breakup - Written by The Break Up Guru, this highly-raved about ebook explains to you how you can save your relationship, get your ex back, or stop your breakup, separation, or divorce. Simple tricks to getting your partner back.

* How to Get Over a Break Up - Written by The Break Up Guru. An unbelieavably good read! Help to mend your broken heart and recover from a break up. You can mend TODAY!

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Hot Stone Healing

A couple of months ago, I made a decision. As I was redeeming a free cup of coffee because I filled up my coffee card, I decided that there should be more rewards in life. If I can get a free cup of coffee because I overpaid for ten other cups, I should get a gift for other things, too. At that moment, I decided that I'm going to start my own punch card system. For every ten dates or relationships that fail, I'm going to treat myself to a massage.

Now I know what you're thinking. Relationships have nothing to do with massages or coffee, right? Wrong. I could fill up ten coffee cards with the amount of coffee dates I have to go on before I get close enough to a man who can give me a massage. And if that man leaves - which a lot of men inevitably do - then I'm back to paying for my own coffee and wishing that I could get a massage. So, I decided that I deserve a massage if I have to go through ten failed dates or relationships to get it.

Well, today was the first day that I got a chance to cash in on my personal massage voucher. As I was lying on a heated bed and receiving what would later become a burn mark from an enormous hot stone, I tried to clear my mind and forget about why I was at the massage parlor in the first place. Unfortunately, I couldn't do that. With every hot stone that was added to my spine, all I could think of was another failed romance. Stone number one was for the guy who never called back. Stone number two was for the guy who did call when he shouldn't have. Stone number three was for the seemingly perfect guy who was presumably stoned to death because he just disappeared. And so forth and so on.

After I mentally calculated all of the men who led me to my massage of doom, I realized something. There was no need for me to spend my $80 massage session thinking of all those losers. In fact, there was no need for me to spend my free time thinking of those losers. I don't actually want to spend the rest of my life with a man who still reads comic books or with a man who cheats with other women. In fact, I don't actually want to spend a month with one of those guys. So why is it that I've wasted so much time, energy, and now money, trying to move past those failed experiences?

By the end of my massage session, I learned a valuable lesson. There's nothing wrong with getting a massage or doing anything else because you want to do it. There is, however, something wrong with doing that to make up for a man who let you down. If he dumped you and left you to suffer, then he's the one who will lose in the long run. Ten weeks, months, or years down the road, you're going to be with a man who deserves you. Your ex is still going to be the scumbag that he was when he left you.

The point is that there is absolutely no reason for us to whine and pine over men who are simply not worth our time. If it costs you $80 and a hot stone burn to come to that realization, so be it. I promise you that the realization will be worth it, no matter what the cost.

By Tricia Psarreas, Staff writer

The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up
The essential female companion from the first moment he walks out of your life! The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up offers step-by-step advice for getting over him.

The Hell with Love: Poems to Mend a Broken Heart
Finally a book of poetry that describes every emotion you go through when you are in love and heart broken. This book is amazing and wonderful. I recommend it to who ever loves poetry and ever had a broken heart.

He's Just Not That Into You (The Newly Expanded Edition): The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
It seems like everywhere you turn the phrase "He's just not that into you" is being thrown around. And for good reason! The ladies are finally done waiting by the phone - hey, why sit at home for the phone to ring when it's so obvious that he's just not that into you?

Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit?
In easy psychological terms, this book helps a woman understand why a man may react negatively to her even when she feels she's doing everything right for a relationship. With different female personalities portrayed, the reader will find themselves fitting one or more of the profiles.

The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up by Delphine Hirsh"The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up"

by Delphine Hirsh

A must for any broken heart!! I admit I have not yet finished reading this one, but for any girl who has just had her heart smashed to pieces I thoroughly recommend it!!! Has some great advice for getting through rough patches, some tips and a bit of humour to help cheer you up!!! And most of all encourages you to look after yourself which is not foremost on our minds when we are hurt and miserable!!! This book is a lifesaver!!!~Erin

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Book Description
The essential female companion from the moment he walks out of your life. The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up offers step-by-step advice for getting over him, including:

* What to do the first night
* How not to Drink & Dial
* How to tell parents and friends about the breakup
* The most effective way to pamper yourself
* How to express your anger without landing in jail
* Tips for surprise run-ins with your ex
* The top five movies to get you through the worst times
* And much more!

An inspiring mix of sage advice, go-girl humor, lonelyhearts empathy, and practical fun, The Girls' Guide offers quizzes, Top Five Lists, must-do activities, and sound guidelines for weathering a period that—if it can only be lived through—will leave anyone stronger.

READER'S COMMENTS ON The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up

This is a must-have for your break-up! This book really hits the nail on the head for so many topics. It's funny, practical, and a great resource for any gal dealing with a break-up. I'm getting over a break-up of a nine year relationship..this book has given me some great advice, much needed laughs, and essential support. Thanks to the author!~R.D.


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This book is a lifesaver... This book is chock full of helpful advice and it is writen in a way that feels as though you are talking to a really, wonderful, soothing and understanding friend. The best part is that it is like having this friend at your beck and call 24 hours a day. It really helped me through a rough time. Thank you Delphine for writing this book!~A Reader


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Excellent Read! I highly recommend this book to anyone who is going through or recovering from a breakup. It is not a step-by-step guide to recovering from a breakup -- that would be so boring and I doubt anyone in a breakup state of mind would feel inclined to read or pratise it. Instead, the author offers you her friendship and support as she holds your hand and walks you through your ordeal, starting from the First Few Days where all you are required to do is Just Keep Breathing. There is no trace of preachiness or holier-than-thou-ness in the book. Instead, you feel that the author is going through the pain with you. But at the same time that she offers you her friendship, she is also there to ensure that you do not wallow in too much sadness and die of a broken heart (no man is that worthy!). She props you up when you trip over and encourages you to press on, like when you make that call that you know you shouldn't and she has told you not to and why not. In addition to the sound, practical and pragmatic advice, what distinguishes this as an outstanding book is the empathy and forgiveness that comes across. With some quiet humour and lots of common sense, you are encouraged (and sometimes pushed along) to continue placing one foot in front of the other day by day, until you yourself recognise that by doing this simple act (and continue breathing), you are already moving on and getting better. The author has done a wonderful job. She surely has been there before and knows what she's talkiing about. She's now back as a friend and supporter -- yours. Get this book!~Chan


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Laughed and cried - loved it! I have to say this book was very helpful to me. It helped me sort through my feelings and it distracted me from my sadness. I felt like i was listening to a friend.~Libby


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Compassion with Humor! This book is excellent. It was tremendously helpful to my friend in a very difficult break-up. Ms. Hirsh has great ideas and what strikes me most is that she had a real sense of the pain involved in a break-up (especially for a twenty- or thirty-something woman) and she writes with compassion, but also a wild and supportive sense of humor. It can be a very caring gift to a friend in need since the best thing you can do for a friend in addition to support her, is help her to feel ok on her own -- this book is a kind of security blanket and guide for how to inch back to full selfhood after being sideswiped by a break-up.~A Reader


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Fabulous Rx for a Broken Heart. I had a lot of fun reading Hirsh's book. Sensible, chatty, often hilarious advice from a savvy writer with a biting wit. Girls of all ages will feel like they are talking to a best girlfriend. I found my boyfriend reading it in the bathtub and laughing.~Mary


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Laughed so hard I forgot about my boyfriend. This book is exactly what I needed at a most devestating time in my life. Ms. Hirsh remindes us that breakups are something we all go through and it is also something we can quickly get over if we have the right attitude. The book made me want to bond with my girlfriends, pamper myself and turn the whole ordeal into a positive, even fun experience. I ate anything I wanted, went to the spa, shopped with my friends and rented all of the movies the author recommended. She helped me realized that breaking up can actually be fun. Next...~A Reader


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Works for EVERYONE & I mean EVERYONE. Whether you're a straight/gay/lesbian/bi/whatever, this book is for you. i'm a gay man who has been in several dead-end relationships & this book has definitely clarified the nature of those relationships & further allowed me to enrich my present relationships with my friends. if you practice the exercises that delphine suggests, then you are on your way to healing yourself in numerous ways and you will experience many benefits in your life & in those around you. it works. it really, really works. a must read. ~Happy


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Great gift for a broken-hearted friend. I bought this book for a friend who was recently dumped (over the phone, no less!) She was inconsolable, but somehow Ms. Hirsh's words seemed to get through. At first, all she could handle was the great lists of movies to watch, songs to listen to, etc. But she eventually read the whole thing and is a whole new woman, even more confident than when she was with her idiot ex-boyfriend. Thanks for bringing my friend back from break-up hell!~A Reader


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Wonderful. After recently being "dumped", I luckily found this incredible book. It is easy reading (all I was capable of at the time of the breakup) with practical examples of many of the emotions I was feeling. One of the best parts of the book is that it gives helpful hints on how to react to those emotions without embarassing oneself. I laughed and shed a few tears with this book. I found myself re-reading the book over and over to gain insight into my previous relationship and finding ways to move on. Great book!~A Reader


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I loved this book and boy did I need it... Ususally I shy away from self-help books but the cover caught my eye and I ended up browsing through it & realizing that it would be a huge help to me during this really hard time. I was only dating my boyfriend for a few months but for some reason I am having the hardest time getting over him, so when I started to flip through "The Girls' Guide To Surviving A Break-Up" I knew that it would soothe and help me, and it has. Because the writing is really funny and the author seems real (you can tell she's been through it too) and her advice is so good and empowering, it's given me a glimpse of hope and made me feel like I will move past this (and him). I highly recommend this book to anyone feeling heartbroken and blue. This is a GREAT book that has helped me so much in such a short amount of time. Thank you Delphine Hirsh! ~Marnie


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Every women should have a copy of this book, January 21, 2003 Reviewer: A reader Only a week ago I was sitting at home crying hysterically about my latest break up, and now I am even able to face him at work. All thanks to Ms. Hirsh. This book was a gift sent directly from heaven. It gave me confidence to pick myself up and get back out there.~A Reader


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It's about time. Being one of those women who have a really hard time letting go or getting out of substandard relationships with lame guys, I was happy to find 'The Girls Guide.' It helped me through some really dark times and now I am ready to face the daunting world of dating with a fresh outlook and positive attitude. Thanks for the help Mrs. Hirsh!~A Reader


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Great advice. Great read. This hilarious book doled out useful and supportive advice and served as a solid, dependable, loyal and amusing comarade to me during a difficult time. It really helped me feel less alone during a period that felt horrible.

Full of tips on how to not only appear but actually be less crazy during this emotional period as well as how to handle different people and situations in life, it also contains helpful lists of distractions. I especially appreciated the chapters devoted to putting my life back together. Being reminded to take care of myself in general and how important it is to nurture body mind and soul helped put me on the road to restructuring a good life -- maybe even better than before the break-up.

For the laughs, the much-appreciated intelligent tone and for the solid advice that extends to any woman, I will be reccommending this to all my girlfriends-- especially those in the throes of a nasty break-up. ~Cassandra


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My Savior . Delphine hirsh is brilliant. she takes her experiences and makes them like identical with my experiences. i don't know what i would do w/o this book...OMG! my boyfriend broke up with me the day after we made valentine's day plans. my sister showed me this book and it brought me from down in the dumps to feeling good again. thank you. - Back From Hell~


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It's About Time. Being someone who can't seem to fully break up with most of the sub-par men that I have dated, mostly out of fear of loneliness, it was great to finally find a book that spoke to me. The Girls' Guide is no-nonsense but heartfelt, guaranteed to guide even the most chronic bad-boyfriend/breakup/behavior prone women to succeed in moving on. Thanks for the help! ~A Reader


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I laughed...I cried... No really- this book is awesome. I did laugh and cry, it's true, but mostly I felt sort of relieved to actually feel normal! I recently went through a pretty horrific break-up (thus staying anonymous for this review) and have been feeling like the local lunatic and as though this experience will never end... This guide is written by someone who clearly empathizes with my experience and it really does offer some great, funny, smart, and compassionate advice. It supports "girl-power" without being "anti-man" and just gives a little perspective. I would highly recommend this for women of all ages! ~A Reader


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Finally, someone with a clue. Picked this book up yesterday on my way out of New York - having just had a classic New Year's Eve disaster break-up. Ms. Hirsh made my plane ride so much better than it would have been without it. Or maybe it was the vodka tonics! Anyway, the book was smart and funny and I recommend it to anyone who's been through a bad time, recently or not.~Kristina


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For the women:

* How to Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back - By using these basic, down-to-earth strategies, anyone can get an ex-boyfriend back and turn a broken relationship back into a loving, lasting one - or make their current relationships deeper and more fulfilling.

* The Zodiac Man - Because not all ex-boyfriends or ex-husbands are the same, the plan to win them back shouldn't be the same either! That's why there's 'Breakup Scopes' The Zodiac Man'!

* How to Win Back Their Attraction to You!

For the men:

* How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back eBook Kit - Learn how to win back your ex girlfriend and become the man that women stay hopelessly attracted and attached to. Well worth the read!

For both men & women:

Plus if your breakup is very recent, or in the process, we highly recommend:

* How to Stop A Breakup - Written by The Break Up Guru, this highly-raved about ebook explains to you how you can save your relationship, get your ex back, or stop your breakup, separation, or divorce. Simple tricks to getting your partner back.

And to Mend a Broken Heart:

* How to Get Over a Break Up - Written by The Break Up Guru. An unbelieavably good read! Help to mend your broken heart and recover from a break up. You can mend TODAY!

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* Why Women Love Bastards - A Man's Guide to Holding His Own 'Power' in a RelationshipHow Would You Like to Finally Find a Solution to Your Lack Of Manly Power over Women; in Your Life; in Your Relationships; and in Your Dating Arena?

* Why Women Dump Men - Forget what she told you, find out the real reason why women dump their guys.

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